I sneakily asked my grandfather, "You get up early every day to cook, three meals a day, and then you go to work. You do this every day, even on legal holidays. Don't you ever get tired",Grandfather looked at his grandmother in the garden, enjoying her afternoon tea which she had made herself, and smiled like a fool. He said:,My grandfather never remarried, and my grandmother never remarried. My childhood memories consist of the daily routines of this couple who were not spouses.。